Date: 2018-02-10 08:00
If you're wondering why the online dating game isn't working for you, you only need to look at the horrific mess of a comment you just posted.
You sound so very unrealistically picky, that you will probably be alone for a long time or maybe end up with someone who looks good on paper, meets all your laundry list, but doesn't make you happy at all.
There’s something unnerving about communicating with someone you hardly know. We’ve all watched Law and Order we’ve heard the horror stories. There’s nothing wrong with being safe.
On that one you could mark people as "favourites" without contacting them but they could see you had and if they marked you too it indicated that a contact was worthwhile.
Your first option for safety on any site is to not use your photo. Girls like to say that only the guys care about looks, but that’s not true. Even the holiest of girls wants to see if his eyes look honest and kind (or if his hairline is receding or if his belly shows too much beer consumption) before she meets him for coffee. So not using a photo isn’t really going to reap a bumper crop of hot dates for most people.
I personally don't even want to be friends with anyone who would vote for Trump. Why would I be willing to date someone who does?
The best way to get your foot in the door is to find something in their profile to start a conversation about. Ask them an open-ended question so they start talking about that and themselves. Say they list Adele as one of the musicians they like. You could say something like, "What do you think of Adele's new album (whatever)? I think her best effort on it was (whatever song) because. What is your opinion?"
Just an example. I mean at least it shows you read her profile AND it is a conversation starter.
The internet is the number one reason for the rise of sexism on the modern age. Women see men for what they are and vice versa. Women ignore most men and clump them all together as pathetic or creeps in broad generalizations and only go for the male model looking profiles. Result is good looking men with professional grade photos and the women willing to have casual sex with them are the only ones getting what they want. Meanwhile other women despise that, the ones that arent interested in casual sex. They see the guys they would want to be with acting like apes because they get an all you can eat buffet while simultaneously ignoring men they could have chemistry with, because meeting people in person is very different from online.
Since he is a police officer and I was able to verify that I agreed and we had a lovely time together and there was some play although not full blown sexual relations and I thought everything went greatly.
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